The steps in your comfort conversation are:
- Find a topic to talk about by asking the girl “what she’s into.”
- Dive into the topic and use empathetic listening to show genuine interest in her life.
- Try to relate on the topic or the core emotion to create a commonality
Remember that you’ll be doing these for several topics in your comfort conversation (not just one topic) because we’d like to strengthen our connection to the woman by creating many commonalities not just one or two.