Opening in an indirect way is opening in a way that seems incidental, accidental, or unintentional.  In other words, you’re NOT starting the conversation with direct sexual intent that you verbalize in any way.  The girl you’re starting a conversation with might not even know that you had intent to start talking to her, she might instead feel like the conversation just happened for whatever reason.

I like to use Indirect ways of starting conversations with people simply because I like to mask my intentions until I know better what my intentions might be.  I also like to observe the first rule of attraction when I start a conversation.  Do you remember what the first step of attraction is?  The first step in attracting a woman is that she has to not know whether or not she could get your or not.  If she has no doubt you must create it, and if she doesn’t know yet then you’re in great shape.

So what do I mean when I say that I like to mask my intentions because I don’t know what they might be yet?  Well just because a girl is hot doesn’t mean I want to have sex with her!  I’ve met enough super hot and thoroughly annoying women to know that I won’t like a lot of them.  Often there will be a woman who is a better “fit” for me in the same group, or even on her way back from the bathroom or from getting a drink maybe.  So if I open the first girl with a direct statement of intent that I like her, then it makes it hard for me to do the same thing to her friend and have good results from doing so.  I’ve seen men do this and when the women figure it out it makes the man appear very disingenuous.  Not good.

This is why I don’t like to let my intentions be known to women right away.

In fact, I would like to encourage you to try not to establish your intent with a woman until you have an idea of her personality!  

I know this may sound cliché, but I’m actually quite serious here and I encourage you to try these approaches out and make your own judgements based on your results.  I think you’ll find out that you agree with me.  And if not, I would LOVE for you to show me how well this is working for you so I can learn.  I’m always open to learning a new approach if one exists.