My goal with eye contact is to simply get eye contact with a girl when I first starting to talk with her so that I know her attention is on me.  A general rule of thumb here is that you want to maximize the amount of time that a woman spends with her attention on you, so if you find yourself looking at her so much that she looks away a lot, then you’re giving her far too much eye contact.

I’m going to outline a technique I use for eye contact called “The Sprinkler” in the next lesson, so stay tuned.

Also, many of you know that I have an extensive plan for what to do with your eyes when you’re in and around a bar setting, and if you’re interested in that, I’ll be creating it soon in a special Action Plan when I’m done creating the monthly content.  That plan is definitely not something for beginners, so if you’re just starting out, just please just don’t be the guy who is constantly looking around the room with your head and eyes.  Instead, pay attention to your friends and use your periphery to see who might be looking at you.  And when you’re ready for more than that, checkout the special Action Plan on Eye Contact that’s coming in the future…